The bane of all internet and forum users again are the site admin and moderators. Who like to keep the forums within a limited ‘woke’ bandwidth. So most threads are just a roll out of statements with little or no interaction. For fear of receiving a ban by the mods. So think how you act in a shifty, stressful workplace, well you get the idea. Fearfull and wary.
Oddly though the mods allow the main topics of contention, which are, race, bareback, cheating/adultery, hetero single men, to develop into very unpleasant arguments. This is moral usurpation, it simply deepens people’s prejudice and discrimination under the wording of ‘preference’. I think the mods either don’t see this or actively allow it’s development. So invariably, long after the real damage is done a thread is shut down.
It would be easy to invest yourself into committing to finding a solution via a site like this. But for single men it’s not good. Many post threads questioning their purpose on joining, hoping for an improvement. It’s unlikely. You are simply on the hamster wheel.
The site may claim to have a zero policy to sex workers. But why, and to what effect? Nobody needs to. The sex workers pose as swingers, but quickly reveal themselves in private. There is no advertising or soliciting in public. This is common practise on any adult/dating site.
For no cost or little thereof, it’s as good as it can be to represent and cater for an exclusive niche of society. It’s layout and operability is old school. Continue reading “Great place to meet new people but be”